What if the au pair experience felt easy, connected, and rewarding?

Personal Coaching for
Au Pairs or Host Parents

Turn challenges into connection. Coaching that helps Au Pairs and Host Families navigate culture,
communication, and expectations with confidence.

What if the au pair experience felt easy, connected,
and rewarding?

Personal Coaching for Au Pairs or
Host Parents

Turn challenges into connection. Coaching that helps Au Pairs and Host Families navigate culture, communication, and expectations with confidence.

What if the au pair experience felt easy, connected, and rewarding?

Personal Coaching for
Au Pairs or Host Parents

Turn challenges into connection. Coaching that helps Au Pairs and Host Families navigate culture,
communication, and expectations with confidence.

GET started

Mission Statement

We help Au Pairs and Host Parents move from cultural misunderstandings and daily challenges to a harmonious and fulfilling exchange year. This journey fosters personal growth, deepens cultural understanding, and creates meaningful memories — turning obstacles into opportunities for transformation and building strong, lasting relationships.

Mission Statement

We help Au Pairs and Host Parents move from cultural
misunderstandings and daily challenges to a harmonious and fulfilling exchange year. This journey fosters personal growth, deepens cultural understanding, and creates meaningful memories — turning obstacles into opportunities for transformation and building strong, lasting relationships.

Mission Statement

We help Au Pairs and Host Parents move from cultural misunderstandings and daily challenges to a harmonious and fulfilling exchange year. This journey fosters personal growth, deepens cultural understanding, and creates meaningful memories — turning obstacles into opportunities for transformation and building strong,
lasting relationships.

Get Started

This applies equally to both Au Pairs and Host Parents

Book A
Discovery Call

During this 45 minute free Zoom call, we’ll figure out how — and if — we can help you, understand where you are now, and where you want to go.

Join Our Coaching Program

By joining our 1:1 coaching program, you can be confident that you'll receive maximum value.

Make This Year Your Best Ever

Make Your Au Pair Year the Best Ever: Get the support you need to overcome challenges, grow personally, and create memories that last a lifetime.

Super Simple 3 Step Process

This applies equally to both Au Pairs and Host Parents

Book A
Discovery Call

During this 45 minute free Zoom call, we’ll figure out how — and if — we can help you, understand where you are now,
and where you want to go.

Join Our Coaching Program

By joining our 1:1 coaching program, you can be confident that you'll receive maximum value.

Make This Year Your Best Ever

Make Your Au Pair Year the Best Ever: Get the support you need to overcome challenges, grow personally, and create memories that last a lifetime.

Testimonials

Lena L., 21

from Sweden, Au Pair in the UK

From Rematch to Relief:
Finding Strength and Support

Thanks to the coaching, I felt confident and well-prepared when I needed to request a rematch with my first host family. I learned how to communicate my needs clearly and respectfully and received support throughout the transition to my new family. Now, the arrangement matches my expectations, and I’m enjoying my Au Pair experience so much more.

Felice M., 20

from Sweden, Au Pair in Ireland

It Looked Perfect Online,
Then Reality Hit

Being an Au Pair looked perfect on Instagram — but in reality, I felt incredibly lonely. I was too afraid to tell anyone back home because I didn’t want to let them down. Coaching gave me the tools to manage my emotions, find my voice, and believe in myself. I feel so much stronger now. Even my host family saw the positive change and offered to cover part of the coaching cost.

Nina P., 19

from Germany, preparing to go to the US

From Fear to Focus – Ready for My AuPair Adventure

Before I found BEMYAUPAIR.com, I felt lost and overwhelmed by my own bravery in leaving home. The coaching helped me feel calm, focused, and confident. It made it easier to settle in with my host family while staying true to myself and my responsibilities. Now, for the first time, I’m truly excited about the year ahead in the U.S.

Lena L., 21

from Sweden, Au Pair in the UK

From Rematch to Relief:
Finding Strength and Support

Thanks to the coaching, I felt confident and well-prepared when I needed to request a rematch with my first host family. I learned how to communicate my needs clearly and respectfully and received support throughout the transition to my new family. Now, the arrangement matches my expectations, and I’m enjoying my Au Pair experience so much more.

Felice M., 20

from Sweden, Au Pair in Ireland

It Looked Perfect Online,
Then Reality Hit

Being an Au Pair looked perfect on Instagram — but in reality, I felt incredibly lonely. I was too afraid to tell anyone back home because I didn’t want to let them down. Coaching gave me the tools to manage my emotions, find my voice, and believe in myself. I feel so much stronger now. Even my host family saw the positive change and offered to cover part of the coaching cost.

Nina P., 19

from Germany, preparing to go to the US

From Fear to Focus – Ready for My AuPair Adventure

Before I found BEMYAUPAIR.com, I felt lost and overwhelmed by my own bravery in leaving home. The coaching helped me feel calm, focused, and confident. It made it easier to settle in with my host family while staying true to myself and my responsibilities. Now I’m truly excited about the year ahead in the U.S.

FAQ's

What is your Coaching about?

We offer guidance on communication, cultural adaptation, emotional well-being, goal setting, and any other challenges that may arise throughout the Au Pair journey. We support Host Parents, especially those new to the program, by helping prevent rematches, manage cultural differences, and ensure smooth integration of their Au Pair. We also provide assistance in resolving ongoing conflicts or misunderstandings. Our coaches truly understand the journey — they’ve all been Au Pairs themselves

What topics are covered in the coaching sessions?

Topics can include cultural adjustment, conflict resolution, time management, homesickness, language skills, personal development, and even career or study planning for your future.

Are you also an AuPair agency that matches AuPairs with host families?

No, we focus exclusively on providing coaching services.

Which languages is the coaching available in?

Currently, our AuPair coaching is available in English and German.

Where are your coaches from, and what are their qualifications?

Currently, all of our coaches are located in Europe. The basic requirements to work with us as a coach are a certified coaching qualification. Also, every coach must have been an Au Pair themselves